Virtually each time I share the most recent proposed ground plan of our bed room suite and addition recently, I’ve no less than one particular person ask, “However the place will you retailer Matt’s Hoyer carry and wheelchairs?” That query wasn’t solely coming from others. It was additionally in my thoughts as effectively. As a lot as I cherished this new plan that we got here up with for turning the three unique bedrooms of the home into one bed room suite after which including on a a lot smaller addition than the one we had initially deliberate years in the past, the one sticking level has all the time been that I don’t have a devoted storage space for these objects that Matt requires.
Right here’s the most recent ground plan that I shared, and the one which I’ve been working in the direction of since I shared it

Again in December (or it might have even been November), I met with an architect who I do know from church as a result of I wished him to attract up the official paperwork that we have to undergo the town for our addition. I instructed him that I’ve the essential ground plan of our home, together with all the measurements, so he doesn’t want to begin from scratch. So when he left, I instructed him that I’d ship him that information and he might go from there.
Nicely, it’s February, and I nonetheless haven’t despatched him something as a result of one thing about our plan simply wasn’t sitting proper with me. So after I noticed him at church just a few weeks in the past, I stated, “I haven’t forgotten! I’m simply attempting to work out some particulars.” He assured me that he wasn’t in any hurry and could be prepared when I’m. So I form of put it out of my thoughts for just a few weeks.
And the half that wasn’t sitting with me was attempting to squeeze two bedrooms and a front room right into a smaller addition, plus winding up with no devoted cupboard space for Matt’s objects. I really like my husband dearly, however I don’t like having his stuff (bathe wheelchair and common wheelchair when he’s not utilizing it) in and out the best way the place I’m always having to stroll round it or stumble upon it after I’m half asleep at evening attempting to make my solution to the toilet.
In my thoughts, I used to be considering I might carve out some area in our future house health club for these objects. It wasn’t an excellent plan, but it surely was the one plan I might provide you with with out including much more room to the longer term addition. And whereas it might be good to simply construct an enormous addition with room for all the pieces my little coronary heart wishes, it’s simply not sensible. I actually wish to preserve that addition to 16 toes (versus the 27 toes our unique plan would have required). That’s a distinction of virtually 500 sq. toes, which makes an enormous distinction within the closing value.
Even on the ground plan on the high of this submit, you may see that I compromised on that 16-foot restrict that I had set by bumping out the visitor bed room. However once more, I simply couldn’t see one other manner. So these are the issues that have been conserving me from shifting ahead and sending the information to the architect. I didn’t wish to pay him for drawing up plans if I used to be nonetheless uncertain concerning the plan. I didn’t wish to add to the associated fee by paying him now for one thing I’m uncertain about, solely to alter my thoughts at a later date after which must have him draw up extra plans that will value extra money.
So I’ve been sitting on this for some time now (since November or December), simply hoping {that a} answer would current itself. And I believe that lastly occurred this final weekend.
As y’all know, I’ve been speaking lots about how the doorways to the hallway rest room will ultimately be closed up and I’ll have a stable wall there within the bed room lobby. After which the entry to that loo could be moved to the brand new hallway as soon as we construct the addition.


However each time I’d go into that loo, I’d suppose to myself how completely located that room is for the much-needed storage room I’ve been wanting for Matt’s objects. It’s the right measurement for it. It’s the right location proper there contained in the bed room suite. It already has doorways on it that confide in the scale wanted to maneuver these objects out and in very simply. It’s simply excellent.
The issue with that plan is apparent, although. If I preserve that room accessible to the bed room suite and switch it right into a storage closet, meaning we have now no visitor rest room. And I’ve been down this street earlier than, attempting to suit a toilet into the addition. I couldn’t match two bedrooms, a front room, and a toilet right into a 16-foot addition. The area simply isn’t there for all of that.
Nevertheless it had been some time since I actually studied that ground plan, so this final weekend, I made a decision to check out it with contemporary eyes and a transparent head to see if there was any manner so as to add a toilet to that addition whereas conserving it to 16 toes. And what struck me instantly was the query, “Why am I attempting so as to add two bedrooms (considered one of which might be used as a house health club) to the addition? Do we actually want two bedrooms?”
So I received actually sincere with myself. Why am I attempting so as to add two bedrooms? Why do I would like a visitor bed room that may sit there, utterly unused, only for the aim of getting a visitor bed room? I can’t even keep in mind the final time we wanted a visitor bed room. Matt’s dad doesn’t journey anymore, and he’s the one visitor we’ve ever had. And if the very uncommon event did come up after we wanted to deal with a visitor in a single day, my studio has loads of room to arrange a mattress. So having a devoted visitor bed room looks like a whole waste of area (and cash) to me.
The one motive I used to be including a second bed room within the addition is as a result of in my thoughts, I’m nonetheless caught on the concept I want to show this home again right into a three-bedroom home. Why? For future homeowners. My goodness, how typically have I preached that individuals must make their houses their very own with out fascinated with what some attainable future homeowners might want? And but, I saved going again to that. I’m not even practising what I preach.
So after giving it a number of thought, I noticed that the one particular person I wish to make sure that we have now room for is my mother. My mother is 86 years previous. She is in phenomenal well being and lives by herself within the house I grew up in. She’s lots like her personal mom, who lived by herself till she was 99. My grandmother was in wonderful well being at that age. She was nonetheless driving, nonetheless residing alone in her house in east Texas, nonetheless caring for her home by herself, nonetheless caring for her property, and thriving. However she had made an settlement together with her daughters (my mother and my aunt) that when she turned 100, she would promote her home and transfer to Waco. So when she turned 100, she bought her home, moved to Waco, and moved right into a retirement house the place she lived in her personal house. She lived to be 108 years previous, and she or he did simply superb residing by herself till about these final two years of her life.
My mother appears to be on that very same observe. She’s 86 years previous and thriving. When she tells folks her age, there’s all the time an audible gasp. Folks suppose they misheard her, and there’s no attainable manner she may very well be 86 years previous. She’s in higher well being than most individuals 20 years her junior. And she or he loves residing by herself in her own residence.
So whereas I don’t see her needing to return reside with us anytime within the close to future, I simply have it in my thoughts that if she ever needs or wants to reside elsewhere, she received’t go to a retirement house. She’ll come reside with us. She is actually the one particular person I wish to make sure we have now room prepared and accessible for if she ever needs or wants to reside someplace aside from her own residence. However once more, as she appears to be on the identical observe as her personal mom, we’re taking a look at that being over a decade away.
With that objective in thoughts of constructing certain we have now area for my mother, I gave our ground plan one other look. And what I made a decision is that I can get rid of the wasted area of an precise visitor bed room that may sit there unused. I do need one bed room within the addition as a result of I desire a room that we are able to use as a house health club for now, however that room can simply be transformed right into a bed room if we ever have want of that. And eliminating that second bed room leaves loads of room for a visitor rest room. A 16-foot addition is loads of room for one bed room with a big closet, one rest room, and a household room. And if the day comes that we want the house health club as a bed room, we are able to simply shut up the door between our rest room and that bed room.
So with all of that in thoughts, that is what I’m now planning. And all of it suits inside the 16-foot restrict that I wished to maintain.


I really feel so peaceable about this plan. I’m going to sit down with it a pair extra weeks and ensure I don’t see any issues with it, however I can nearly assure that that is the plan I’ll be sending to the architect. It provides us all the pieces we want, together with that much-needed cupboard space for Matt’s objects.